A one-month Bible study for men

Dwight Elmore and Arthur Robinzine light the Advent candles. Photo: Gerald Farinas.

The following is a study that emphasizes themes relevant to men, such as leadership, relationships, faith in action, and spiritual growth, all rooted in Reformed theology.

Some people respond better to conversations that have a visual component. It helps to list things on chart paper or on a screen, or even have individuals list things in a notebook.

Sometimes, looking for photographs or works of art, or even popular music to pair with a Bible study topic also helps make the Bible study conversation more relatable and offers a cue to deeper insight from each person.

Week 1: Godly Leadership

Focus: Exploring leadership as modeled by Christ.

Key Scripture: Mark 10:42-45

“For the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”

Discussion:

  • How do you define leadership in your family, church, or community?

  • What are societal ideas of leadership?

  • How does Christ’s example of servant leadership challenge those societal ideas of power and influence?

  • Who are the examples of Christian servant leadership? Note: Some of the examples might not be Christians!

Reflection:

  • What does it mean to lead by serving others?

  • Where is God calling you to practice servant leadership?

Challenge:

Identify one way you can serve someone in your family, workplace, or church this week.

Week 2: Building Strong Relationships

Focus: Cultivating relationships rooted in love, respect, and accountability.

Key Scripture: Ecclesiastes 4:9-12

“Two are better than one because they have a good reward for their toil. For if they fall, one will lift up the other.”

Discussion:

  • Who have been the key spiritual influences in your life? List them.

  • How do you foster meaningful relationships with others?

Reflection:

  • How can men support each other spiritually and emotionally?

  • What about those expressions that society teaches are not “manly” like crying?

  • What steps can you take to deepen a relationship with someone this week?

Challenge:

Pair up with another participant for an accountability partnership over the next month. Check in weekly, maybe before or after church, to encourage and pray for each other.

Week 3: Faith in Action

Focus: Living out your faith through deeds and witness.

Key Scripture: James 2:14-17

“Faith by itself, if it has no works, is dead.”

Discussion:

  • Share a time when your faith led you to action.

  • How do you balance faith and works?

Reflection:

  • In what areas of your life are you being called to act on your faith?

  • How does your faith influence your decisions at work, home, or in your community?

Challenge:

Volunteer for a local mission project or outreach event this week. Note: Mission projects can be anything like donating to a cause that is important to a person.

Week 4: Spiritual Growth

Focus: Pursuing a deeper relationship with God.

Key Scripture: Psalm 1:1-3

“They are like trees planted by streams of water, which yield their fruit in its season.”

Discussion:

  • What practices have helped you grow spiritually?

  • What obstacles prevent you from prioritizing time with God?

  • How do we minimize those obstacles?

Reflection:

  • How can you remain rooted in God’s Word daily?

  • What is one area of your spiritual life you want to grow through the year?

Challenge:

Commit to reading one chapter of the Bible daily for the next 30 days.

Finale

On the final day of the study, gather for a closing session that includes:

  • Worship and prayer.

  • Sharing testimonies of growth and insights from the past month.

  • Discussing ways to continue accountability and spiritual growth as a group.

This study encourages men to live out their faith boldly while cultivating community and spiritual maturity in line with Presbyterian principles.

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